Why does every on of my dates or boyfriends, end up finding my so annoying that they dump me? Nearly every guy I know tells someone, if not me that they think I'm hot, funny, intelligent (how dumb are they?) nice. Yet when ever I go out with someone they seem to get sick of me and with no warning dump me. This happens after months of telling me how much they love me, when I finally get comfortable, they get lost. I've been out with all types of guys, obviously not every type. This includes nice guys, that haven't ever had a girlfriend before. They would rather be alone than be with me. They don't dump me for someone else, they just decide that it suddenly isn't what they want. Then within days they go looking for another girlfriend, nice. They don't dump me harshly, so I have nothing to hate them for. Oh yes, of corse they go and find another girlfriend within at least three months. I go on pretending I'm just so happy to be single. I would be happy, but all my friends seem to be in relationships that manage to survive everything. Why arent I worth fighting for? Why do guys drop me at a wim. I have even been out with a friend, who has done the same. The regection is unbearable. The worst thing is, I get asked at least once a week, in so many words (more often by my nan) 'Why hasn't a pretty girl like you got a boyfriend?' Makes me wanna SCREAM! I really don't know? I hate to sound so self obsessed and narcissistic, but I cant help but feel lonely. I know I'm quite pretty, but I do try to make the best of myself, I not sure what I should do, as doing nothing hasn't helped either.
I've tried being happy single, but its so damn depressing. Please help with useful advice, for the stupid love fool.
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